Good morning friends! I received this from Kelley Atkinson. It is a poem that a friend of her husbands’ wrote:
Our Reason for Christmas
By Milt Dougherty
Twas a cold night in December, and all through the town
The inns were all full, not a room could be found
For the king had decreed that a census be taken
And the world would change before the day would awaken
Here in a Bethlehem barn, a woman and man
Playing their role in God’s master plan
Had come to the city and here on this night
Would give to the world God’s shining light
Both Mary and Joseph answered God’s call
With his plan to send Jesus to save man from the fall
Obedient they listened and did as were told
As predicted before in stories of old
In the form of a baby, of virgin birth born
God’s gift to his people on this Christmas morn
They named him Jesus, as the angel had said
And laid him in a manger to rest his sweet head
While in that crude manger lay baby and beast
There arose a bright star that shone in the east
It served as a guide to foreigners three
The wise men who traveled, the baby to see
They knew that this baby was no ordinary child
The power of God, and yet his spirit, so mild
Both human and God, part man, part divine
Sent to forgive both your sins and mine
As told in the scriptures from long, long ago
God living among us so we would all know
God’s bountiful love, no matter our case
Wrapped up in this child, God’s merciful grace
We may celebrate Christmas with family and toys
But those are small parts of real Christmas joys
There’s Santa, the tree and all the presents you get
It’s all good stuff, but let’s not forget
Two thousand years later, the story’s the same
Forgiveness to all who call on God’s name
The Christ-child in the manger, a beautiful site,
Our real reason for Christmas, so to all a good night.
May we all embrace in more refreshing ways, the reason for the excellent season we celebrate!
Turn your Bible to Matthew 5.
Prayer
Introduction
I’m glad you’re here on this special morning as we continue together in our annual theme, “Crossing Over the Crimson Bridge.” In essence, crossing over the crimson bridge speaks to us of coming to know Christ as Savior, but not allowing everything in our lives to come over the bridge of the cross. When we come to know Christ as Savior, our souls pass over from spiritual death to life. The problem comes when our fleshly nature takes back some area where we don’t want Christ to have control. It can be a whole variety of sin; among them could be
• chemical abuse
• or addiction to pornography,
• bitterness
• or gossip,
• backbiting
• or rebellion.
The enemy is creative and so are we when it comes to submitting ourselves to sin. Basically, each one of us can fill in our own blank.
Last week and this, we began an introduction to an incredibly liberating teaching that our Faith Journey Groups – our adult small groups – are going to go through in the first part of next year. It’s a series called, “Life’s Healing Choices.” The series works hand-in-hand with the focus of our Celebrate Recovery ministry here at Faith which is based on the Beatitudes found in Matthew 5. But it also works hand-in-hand with the Scripture in helping us overcome life’s hurts, habits and hang ups. I also want you to know that we are joining literally thousands of churches across the country who have or are going through this series since the beginning of September.
We have a sin problem, which created the environment for Jesus to come. The Bible says,
Romans 3:23 - 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, ESV
We are all born into sin. And then we see this truth in 1 Peter 5:
1 Peter 5:8 - 8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. ESV
The devil will do whatever he can to cause us to fall. And let’s be blunt, we all have struggles, we all have hurts, habits and hang ups because there is a devil and we live in a fallen world.
There is a powerful word picture in Isaiah 57 of God redeeming and restoring the repentant heart. Here is what it says,
Isaiah 57:18-19 - 18 I have seen his ways, but I will heal him;
I will lead him and restore comfort to him and his mourners,
19 creating the fruit of the lips.
Peace, peace, to the far and to the near," says the Lord,
"and I will heal him. ESV
There are five promises here by God that He will do on behalf of those who are willing to turn from their sin. These are amazing truths for us to embrace. Let’s look at them:
1. If you are hurt, God says, “I will heal you.”
2. If you’re confused, God says, “I will lead you.”
3. If you feel helpless, God says, “I will help you.”
4. If you feel alone, god says, “I will comfort you.”
5. If you feel anxious and afraid, God says, “I will offer peace to you.”
We need God’s help.
Hurts, habits, hang ups. We all have them. God is able to deal with them. But it’s up to us grab hold of them and cross them over the crimson bridge and give them to Jesus. “Life’s Healing Choices” is the process of this Faith Journey Adventure that we’re on to see both major and minor changes take place in our lives.
There are eight steps, areas and choices, eight Beatitudes for us to consider in regard to “Life’s Healing Choices.” Pastor Dick Stein shared the first four last week. Let’s review them together;
I. Admitting Need: The Reality Choice.
Matthew 5:3 - "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Principle:
“I realize I’m not God. I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable.”
It is to surrender control of our lives over to Christ.
Secondly,
II. Getting Help: The Hope Choice.
Matthew 5:4 - "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Principle:
“Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him and that He has the power to help me.”
This choice means that after giving up control to Christ, we will trust Christ’s help for change to take place in our lives, regardless of the process.
Thirdly,
III. Letting Go: The Commitment Choice.
Matthew 5:5 - "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Principle:
“Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control.”
This choice means that we act upon giving Christ first seat in our lives, allowing him control over everything to bring the change that He wants to make in our lives.
And fourthly,
IV. Coming Clean: The Housecleaning Choice.
Matthew 5:8 - "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Principle:
“I openly examine and confess my faults to myself, to God and to someone I trust.”
This principle is the confession part of our Faith Journey Adventure – acknowledging our sin and crossing over the crimson bridge the areas of our lives that fall short of God’s purpose and plan for us.
And now our focus this morning begins at choice number five,
V. Making Changes: The Transformation Choice.
Matthew 5:6 - "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
Principle:
“Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask Him to remove my character defects.”
Most of you are aware that I went on a diet during 2008. It resulted in my losing 120 pounds. From January 1 until now, I’ve gained back 35 pounds. I think about 30 of those pounds are now strategically located behind my belly button. But I digress…
Yes, I’m looking forward to losing about 20 of those regained pounds. The good news is that I didn’t do what over 80% of those who lose large amounts of weight – gain it all back and more over the next year. I am blessed.
If you look at my family tree you’ll see a lot of people who are pretty large folks. I’ve seen photos of my father’s, mother’s family, and I look a lot like them. So does my dad. The good news is that my kids don’t.
I was at a meeting yesterday on weight loss as I gear up for the continuation of my own journey in this area, and in becoming better equipped to help others on this path. One of the things that they talked about were the different kinds of eaters there are. The main ones they talked about were
social eaters,
emotional eaters
and stress eaters.
They also talked about making healthy choices along the way, literally re-programming one’s self in order to do well in regard to this life-controlling issue in the future. For example, my internal autopilot tells me that I love see-food. In other words, every time I see food I want to eat it. This requires reprogramming.
Our genes, environment and autopilot have a good deal of influence on our hurts, habits and hang ups. They create an environment where we will coddle our background, life and propensities in order to rationalize our character defects. This must not be so. This is not how we were meant to live.
We think that because we’ve been this way for so long that it has become our identity – one that will never change. We don’t like change because we’ve even been able to manage our defect, our sin in such a way that we use it to our advantage to take control over things. For example, in my case I got out of lots of activities because it was physically impossible to do them.
When we do this, we play into the hands of the enemy who doesn’t want us to change.
I managed with my defect of weight. I could do my job. But I’m not nearly as effective carrying the weight. I also did some tests that had my life expectancy around 70. I was literally killing myself, much less missing out on way too much. I guess I wanted to not only be used of the Lord in a greater way, but also to play with my grandkids like I wasn’t able to do with my own kids. That’s a regret, a consequence from my sin that I won’t get back – along with all that wasted opportunity and time.
The Transformation Choice is to voluntarily submit to every change that God wants to make in my life.
It means:
• Focusing on one defect at a time.
There is enough going on in our lives to focus on changing everything at once. Get one thing right and move ahead.
• Focusing on one victory one day at a time.
• Focusing on God’s power and not my own willpower.
• Focusing on the good things and not the bad.
• Focusing on doing good, not feeling good.
When I get on my diet after being off for a few days, I have to start all over on the fat-burning stage. Wow – it’s awful. I’m hungry for two to four days because my body is kicking into gear. I love food and don’t love that feeling. But it’s for my own good.
• Focusing on people who help, not hinder you.
• Focusing on progress, not perfection.
And now, the sixth choice:
VI. Repairing Relationships: The Relationship Choice.
Matthew 5:7 - "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
And,
Matthew 5:9 - "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
Principle:
“Evaluate all my relationships. Offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others, except when to do so would harm them or others.”
John Baker writes,
“I love collecting ‘church bloopers’ – funny mistakes made in the church bulletin or spoken during announcements from the pulpit. But sometimes the corrections are funnier than the original bloopers. One Sunday morning during announcements, the pastor said, ‘I need to make a correction to an announcement from last week’s bulletin. It read: The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment, and gracious hostility. It should have read: The church will host an evening of fine dining, super entertainment, and gracious hospitality. Sorry, folks, we are a loving church, not a hostile on. We love hurting people.’ [Look at that phrase for a moment!]
“He then went on to say, ‘I just have one announcement for this morning. The peacekeepers meeting scheduled for this afternoon has been canceled due to a conflict.’”
John Baker
“Life’s Healing Choices,” p. 167
Friends, we’re all thinking right now of people who’ve offended us. But perhaps instead of doing that, we should think about those whom we’ve offended.
• Make a list of those whom you’ve offended.
Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal them to you. Expect the answer to come, not necessarily in a moment, but over a season of seeking God.
• Think about how you would want someone to make amends with you.
• Go and do it.
• Refocus your life and conduct for the future.
There is much more going on with this step, but this is the basic overview. Do whatever you can to live in peace with everyone.
The seventh choice is,
VII. Maintaining Momentum: The Growth Choice.
Principle:
“Reserve a daily time with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the power to follow His will.”
What we’re talking about here is defending against relapse into our same-old sin.
• We revert back to our own willpower.
• We ignore one of the choices that God used in our lives to overcome sin.
• We ignore the support systems around us.
• We become prideful, thinking we are God and can do it on our own.
D.L. Moody is quoted as saying,
“God has nothing to say to the self-righteous.”
D.L. Moody
Our primary focus on this choice is to make certain that we are making right choices that moved us out of our struggle and to daily evaluate and pursue those choices that keep us above our sinful fray.
We want a mighty move of God here in our church and city, but we must recognize that we need to win the battle for our own soul so we can win the battle for our city.
I’ve been reading lately about churches that are blowing apart by sin. This causes the work of the gospel of Jesus Christ to shrink back. Congregants suing other congregants and pastors because they are not getting their way. This must not be so.
What creates the change? What creates the difference? What keeps us on track? It’s being close to Jesus. It’s being a people of prayer. It’s being a people of the Word. It’s following its precepts and doing the things that God used in our lives in order to continue overcoming the sin that set us back.
When we believe that we’ve done it all ourselves, that’s the moment we lose momentum and God allows us to be left alone in our self-righteousness.
Lastly,
VIII. Recycling Pain: The Sharing Choice.
Matthew 5:10 - "Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Principle:
“Yield myself to God to be used to bring this Good News to others, both by my example and by my words.”
John Baker writes,
“Your greatest contribution to this world – your greatest ministry – will not be found in your strength but in your weakness. The very thing you want least to talk about, the very thing you want to hide in the closet is the very thing God wants you to share. One of the great things about God is that He never wastes a hurt. And He doesn’t want to waste yours.”
John Baker
“Life’s Healing Choices,” p.241
Someone I love and respect recently adopted this quote into their life:
“What defines us is how well we rise after we fall.”
When God delivers us from our sin, that definition that we’ve talked about of our sin defining us is changed, and our lives effect change, and transforms those around us. Our example of Christ’s redeeming and life-changing power radically impacts those around us who know us and are watching us.
It’s really an enigma to people like me who love to study. But for the most part, folks aren’t looking for a theological argument when it comes to sharing your faith in Christ. They’re looking for, well, your faith. We need to tell them your story.
Here are some tips on sharing your story in Christ with others:
• Be humble.
• Be real.
• Don’t lecture.
It’s been said for a century, “The greatest evidence of Christ is a life that demands an explanation.”
Are you ready to move to the next level in your walk with Christ? Are you ready to move past that same old sin in your life that has held you back? Are you ready for the change that only Jesus Christ can bring?
Conclusion
1. [Faith Journey Groups/“Life’s Healing Choices”] I’m very excited about the coming study that will take place in our Faith Journey Groups. In this process, having the book is extremely helpful in that it contains not only the Biblical theology behind sin and change, but also explaining what to do next and testimonies of those who’ve made the changes. Everyone who takes this journey to heart will grow deeper in Christ and in their discipleship.
2. [Salvation] Some of us here today need to begin the Faith Journey Adventure by crossing over the crimson bridge for the first time. You can begin this adventure by giving accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior.
3. [Dealing with sin – personal and corporate] God is speaking to every listening heart in this room about our need to deal with sin in our lives. We want Jesus to move in power. Dealing with our sin is part of this process. I challenge each one of us today to be involved in this process so that we can move ahead as individuals, as families and as a congregation.
4. Altar.
December 13, 2009 Dr. Mike Johnson, Lead Pastor
Celebrate Recovery Series: “Life’s Healing Choices,” Part 2
Romans 3:23 - 23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, ESV
1 Peter 5:8 - 8 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. ESV
Isaiah 57:18-19 - 18 I have seen his ways, but I will heal him;
I will lead him and restore comfort to him and his mourners,
19 creating the fruit of the lips.
Peace, peace, to the far and to the near," says the Lord,
"and I will heal him. ESV
1. If you are hurt, God says, “I will _______________ you.”
2. If you’re confused, God says, “I will _______________ you.”
3. If you feel helpless, God says, “I will _______________ you.”
4. If you feel alone, god says, “I will _______________ you.”
5. If you feel anxious and afraid, God says, “I will offer _______________ to you.”
I. Admitting Need: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:3 - "Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Principle:
“I realize I’m not God. I admit that I am powerless to control my tendency to do the wrong thing and that my life is unmanageable.”
II. Getting Help: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:4 - "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.
Principle:
“Earnestly believe that God exists, that I matter to Him and that He has the power to help me.”
III. Letting Go: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:5 - "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth.
Principle:
“Consciously choose to commit all my life and will to Christ’s care and control.”
IV. Coming Clean: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:8 - "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.
Principle:
“I openly examine and confess my faults to myself, to God and to someone I trust.”
V. Making Changes: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:6 - "Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied.
Principle:
“Voluntarily submit to every change God wants to make in my life and humbly ask Him to remove my _______________ defects.”
VI. Repairing Relationships: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:7 - "Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy.
Matthew 5:9 - "Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.
Principle:
“Evaluate all my _______________. Offer forgiveness to those who have hurt me and make amends for harm I’ve done to others, except when to do so would harm them or others.”
VII. Maintaining Momentum: The _______________ Choice.
Principle:
“Reserve a daily time with God for self-examination, Bible reading, and prayer in order to know God and His will for my life and to gain the _______________ to follow His will.”
VIII. Recycling Pain: The _______________ Choice.
Matthew 5:10 - "Blessed are those who are persecuted for righteousness' sake, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
Principle:
“Yield myself to God to be used to bring this Good News to others, both by my _______________ and by my words.”
Conclusion/Action to Take
Answers: heal, lead, help, comfort, peace, Reality, Hope, Commitment, Housecleaning, Transformation, character, Relationship, relationships, Growth, power, Sharing, example
